Searching for love in Jacksonville

Here I am, sitting on my couch, checking out my dating and romance sites. I check Match.com (Match) and Plenty of Fish.com ( POF) several times a day, my cellphone twinkles at me to let me know that some interest has sprung up to my profile and pictures. So, will it be interesting today, will there be someone or ones who think I am worth their while to send me an email or even a wink?

Introduction

Hello to all, let me introduce myself, the name is Searcher. I am 56 years young, divorced, and searching for love. This blog, my daily journal of love searching will deal with the every day ups and downs of online dating. I have not had a lot of luck. Caught a few fish who like to nibble a bit, but nothing serious or longterm. Here I am in Jacksonville, Florida single and I might say lonely sometimes, looking for companionship, fun, and ultimately my soulmate.

Up to now, I have tried Cupid.com, Yahoo Personals and the two previously mentioned sites. I have had a few dates for coffee, one almost movie, a walk by the river, and a drink. I have managed to lure one of them to my boudoir for some of the best action I have had my whole adult sex-life with a repeat performance a few days later.

So what does my profile consist of?? All sites want you to type answers to questions and post a picture. Will they like me based up my posted pictures and/or profile. Do I sound boring, superficial, too uppitty? Do I look toooooo fat???? Too old?

What do I really want? I know what I don't want. I don't want someone to come over, have a delightful time in the sack once or twice and then come over to hangout and watch tv and movies and sports, that being the social priority of the relationship. Do I want a relationship or just fun? Why can't I have both??? My last serious boyfriend came over once a week, slept over and went merrily off to work in the morning. We communicated by phone when he decided to answer the phone, everything in his time. I put up with this infatuation wayyyyyy too long. I was so enamoured with him. The one before him lasted 3 years of bull.....t. I enabled that fool for way too long, chemically dependent and unemployed. Yummy boyfriend.

Oh did I mention these guys are YOUNGER than me??? They liked their sugar momma, right. I don't want to be a sugar momma. But, I have become the dreaded COUGAR. Maybe I should have called this blog COUGAR ON THE PROWL LOL!!!!! Hell, they are great in the sack! I have been approached by men as young as 23 and they all tell me I don't look my age. A warm, willing body is still a warm, willing body!!

Speaking of bodies...what about men my age......for the most part, the response I have had from that age category 50 + has not been positive. Don't get me wrong, I get responses from men my age or older, but for the most part they look their age and even older. And they act OLD!!!!!

What is about middle-aged or old men and their motorcycles? Do they all like to walk on the beach and hold hands and cuddle? OMG!! More to come on this vein!

Well so much for my introduction to Searching for love in Jacksonville. Meet me here daily to check on this Cougar Searching for love and follow her path to love and happiness! TTFN!!!

The Searcher