Rainy days and Mondays get me down.....

It is not raining right now, but it is the truth. Monday.....OMG we have the whole week to trudge through until another weekend. Not much to write about today. I cancelled my dinner plans yesterday due to my continued ill health. I suppose he's mad and that will be the last I hear from that guy. I left my number again, asked him to give me a call....nothing. AH WELL....Will write more tomorrow. Keep on living and loving!!

Saturday Night's All Right!!

Well, fellow bloggers, I am here to tell you that my trepidation of meeting the 23 year old was unfounded. We met for a glass of wine. What a delightful man, a beginning law student. Handsome, swarthy, lanky gentleman. We had an animated conversation about similar likes, movies.... huge Seinfeld fan, we had some laughs over that!! He says I remind of Ray Romano's wife character in Everybody loves Raymond!

Well, it is late!! Will blog more tomorrow! Sleep all of you here in the jungle....where cougars prowl the night. Mothers, hide your babies!!!!!

Day 3 of Searching for love in Jacksonville

Got a hot date tonight! I met someone on one of the sites, talked to him on the phone and we set a dinner date. He is preparing dinner for me at his home! What a treat. He is more my age and fits most of my desired characteristics. We shall see. I am going to be optimistic. I will fill you in later. I received an email from someone with a foreign background today and have not had time to follow up. He appears to be a man around my age group. The 23 year old is hot on my trail. Despite my misgivings, he wants to have a friendly relationship first and see how it goes from there. Mia Madre....these horny kids!!! Will check back in with you all later and report on my latest adventure. TTFN ........Searcher

End of the day

Well, just checked in and what do you know? Same old parade of men 58+. I can't bear it. Let's examine the differences between the two groups younger than me versus my age or older.

Young guys have:

1.Stamina OMG!! Just like the Everready Bunny keeps going and going and going!

2. Recuperativity back after a brief breather

The younger guys say they want an older, mature woman because "we don't play emotional games". Well, I can play those games, too.

The older gentlemen might:

1. need medical assistance (pills)

2. have other health issues you might worry about

Some of them just look OLD!

How about some commonality....what do both groups display often on these sites:

One thing I have noticed is that, for the most part, some guys want some skinny big-boobed Barbie. Well, I look at some of their pictures and some of these "studs" are far from pleasantly muscled, toned, and handsome. Just what is "a few extra pounds"? By whose weight chart? Now there are some big boys who want big girls, and some of the foreign men like their women with some substance.

Well enough for my late night entry. Just got off-line with a 23 year old who is not taking no for an answer. What a dilemna!! He is younger than my youngest child!!! He wants to be friends first. Have to sleep on this one!! Good night you seekers of soulmates wherever you are!

Searching for love in Jacksonville

Here I am, sitting on my couch, checking out my dating and romance sites. I check Match.com (Match) and Plenty of Fish.com ( POF) several times a day, my cellphone twinkles at me to let me know that some interest has sprung up to my profile and pictures. So, will it be interesting today, will there be someone or ones who think I am worth their while to send me an email or even a wink?

Introduction

Hello to all, let me introduce myself, the name is Searcher. I am 56 years young, divorced, and searching for love. This blog, my daily journal of love searching will deal with the every day ups and downs of online dating. I have not had a lot of luck. Caught a few fish who like to nibble a bit, but nothing serious or longterm. Here I am in Jacksonville, Florida single and I might say lonely sometimes, looking for companionship, fun, and ultimately my soulmate.

Up to now, I have tried Cupid.com, Yahoo Personals and the two previously mentioned sites. I have had a few dates for coffee, one almost movie, a walk by the river, and a drink. I have managed to lure one of them to my boudoir for some of the best action I have had my whole adult sex-life with a repeat performance a few days later.

So what does my profile consist of?? All sites want you to type answers to questions and post a picture. Will they like me based up my posted pictures and/or profile. Do I sound boring, superficial, too uppitty? Do I look toooooo fat???? Too old?

What do I really want? I know what I don't want. I don't want someone to come over, have a delightful time in the sack once or twice and then come over to hangout and watch tv and movies and sports, that being the social priority of the relationship. Do I want a relationship or just fun? Why can't I have both??? My last serious boyfriend came over once a week, slept over and went merrily off to work in the morning. We communicated by phone when he decided to answer the phone, everything in his time. I put up with this infatuation wayyyyyy too long. I was so enamoured with him. The one before him lasted 3 years of bull.....t. I enabled that fool for way too long, chemically dependent and unemployed. Yummy boyfriend.

Oh did I mention these guys are YOUNGER than me??? They liked their sugar momma, right. I don't want to be a sugar momma. But, I have become the dreaded COUGAR. Maybe I should have called this blog COUGAR ON THE PROWL LOL!!!!! Hell, they are great in the sack! I have been approached by men as young as 23 and they all tell me I don't look my age. A warm, willing body is still a warm, willing body!!

Speaking of bodies...what about men my age......for the most part, the response I have had from that age category 50 + has not been positive. Don't get me wrong, I get responses from men my age or older, but for the most part they look their age and even older. And they act OLD!!!!!

What is about middle-aged or old men and their motorcycles? Do they all like to walk on the beach and hold hands and cuddle? OMG!! More to come on this vein!

Well so much for my introduction to Searching for love in Jacksonville. Meet me here daily to check on this Cougar Searching for love and follow her path to love and happiness! TTFN!!!

The Searcher